In this life, it’s all about you. That’s why you have to try to be the best version of yourself. And I’m here to help you achieve that.
Where you are or how you are currently, matters a lot. It’s one of the determinants of your future. How it’s gonna look like. Will you be comfortable with yourself or not? All these questions can be answered easily when you have the right mindset towards yourself.
Everybody has a pre-designed personality. No two persons have the same personality. I mean the exact. That’s why, even amongst twins we always see visible differences between them. I’m not talking about resemblance here. I mean personality. One would be quiet while other would be noisy but they are “twins”. Isn’t that amazing.
Before I go further, I know you might be asking what is personality? We have to understand what it is before we can make the best out of it.
Personality refers to individual differences in characteristic patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving.
Personality is the combination of characteristics or qualities that form an individual’s distinctive character.
Personality is defined as the characteristic sets of behaviors, cognitions, and emotional patterns that evolve from biological and environmental factors.
If you observe, the three definition above have a similar term “characteristics”.
Characteristics is a feature or quality belonging typically to a person, place, or thing and serving to identify them.
I’m trying to simplify the terms so that you will be able to flow. I want you to understand that you you can’t change your personality. Yes! You read I well. Your personality is what defines you. And there is no such thing as a bad personality.
With the much I’ve said, let’s dive in to the main project.
How to be the best version of yourself or how to boost your personality.
Start from the beginning:
According to the Time magazine, you don’t just happen to stumble upon the best version of yourself. You need to start from the beginning and take a high number of small steps in order to become what you envision.
Being the best version of yourself is not a wishful thinking. If you don’t set it out in front of you, you’re not going anywhere.
Understand that the best version of yourself is about you.
You know the mistake we make so often is always comparing ourselves with others. I mean we do this on a daily basis. This affects our mentality so badly. Because instead of working on how to improve ourselves, we spend time grooming ourselves to be just like someone else. Very wrong!
I know some of us don’t even want to hear this but it’s as true as truth itself. No man grows without meeting obstacles on the way. Failures are there for you to learn your mistake and correct them. You can’t become the best version of yourself when you are always dodging failure. Instead sit down and reason. If i did it this way, it might work instead of the other way. That’s how to grow.
Let go of limiting beliefs
Tony Robbins said, You know who you are – but do you know who you could be? Most of us are held back by limiting beliefs: untrue thoughts we have about our intrinsic nature. By learning to recognize and let go of whatever limiting beliefs are keeping you from becoming the best version of yourself, you’re able to push forward and find the person you really are.
Develop a growth mindset
No one is made up of only strengths. We all have pain points that require attention if you want to be the best version of yourself. Successful people tackle this by having a growth mindset. They believe that there are no weaknesses. There are only opportunities for improvement. Rather than focusing on what they do badly, they focus on how they can improve – and take action to get there.
Tame your fears
Fear is an insidious adversary that robs us of our courage and distracts us from the present moment. Taming your fears is possible, and is necessary to better yourself. When you feel anxious, identify what you’re afraid of and write it down. Then, write down an alternative explanation that’s less scary while still being realistic. Even if your feelings don’t change right away, your mind will register the rationale. In time, the process of fact-checking your fears becomes habitual, and you become less swayed by anxiety.
Set positive goals.
Positivity is the most effectual way to grow. Plus setting goals. If you dont have goals, then you don’t have a focus.
Take a Chance
Even though life can be scary or intimidating, you must stop being fearful and just go for it. Either it will work or it won’t. You might be surprised by the result. If you decide to never apply to your dream job, never make an offer on your dream house, never book a flight to a dream vacation, or never ask your dream girl (or guy) out, you will never know what could be. If it would be for your good or your bad.
Stop struggling with who you are and what you’ve become, and love yourself just as you are. This kind of self-love will only support your process of becoming the best version of yourself.
I hope this really helps you. In all don’t forget to pray at every point of your journey. See you at the top. Also don’t forget to read Positive Breakup Quotes To Make You Feel Better