In a relationship, the two parties are supposed to have time for each other no matter the condition. Once you make up your mind that you want to go into a relationship, you are naturally endowed with some duties that needs to be performed in the relationship. Some of them are; You must not keep anything secret from your partner, You must create room for adjustment etc. But the most important of them is you must have time for your partner. The must was purposely highlighted for emphasis.
Sometimes, we find ourselves too busy for ourselves not to mention someone else. Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you should quit your job just to give yourself to someone. If you truly love your partner, no matter what you would always have them in heart. You would be uneasy until you hear from the person. That’s why love is a very powerful feeling. It can make you do anything without minding.
Not too much talk, I’m sure you are here because you seek solutions to your problem or rather how to deal with your busy partner. Here’s a few tips and tricks that might just help.
- Don’t be a distraction: Try as much as possible not to disturb your partner when they are busy. Even though you miss the attention, try to get yourself distracted with other things. I bet you when they don’t see you around they will begin to wonder.
- Don’t try to stop them from doing their work: Before you met probably they were already engaged in the work. It’s best you adapt rather than try to change it because you might lose the relationship.
- Don’t complain too much: Once in a while you can chip the topic in to remind them that they have someone who needs their time and attention. They might decide to take a day off just to make it up to you.
- Show love no matter what: Because they are engrossed in their work and hardly have time to you doesn’t mean you should do the same if you are the less busy type.
Don’t pay back evil with evil – Anonymous
With everything I’ve said, the summary is just continue to be yourself. Let them realise their mistake and correct it. There’s no need for an argument or breakup except you both aren’t compatible with each other.